20 American Customs Non-Americans Take Too Seriously

Written By Lisa Marley

When you think about American customs, some things might come to mind that are distinctly “American.” But sometimes, people from other countries can take these customs way too seriously. It’s all in good fun, but let’s explore 20 of these uniquely American habits that often get blown out of proportion.

Thanksgiving Dinner

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The idea of a massive Thanksgiving feast, complete with turkey, stuffing, and all the trimmings, is an iconic American tradition. While it’s seen as “a day to gather and express… thanks through food, family, and football” according to The Independent, it’s a more relaxed holiday than non-Americans think. Some even opt for takeout or non-traditional meals.

Celebrating Halloween

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Halloween in the United States is a big deal, with elaborate costumes, spooky decorations, and trick-or-treating. But non-Americans sometimes go overboard, thinking every American street turns into a haunted carnival. In reality, while many people do enjoy dressing up and attending parties, it’s not always as grand or terrifying as portrayed in movies.

Black Friday Shopping

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Tourists might picture everyone in the U.S. camping outside stores or fighting over the latest gadgets for Black Friday. It’s gained international attention for its crazy deals and shopping frenzy. While some do participate in the early morning rush, many Americans prefer to shop online or avoid the chaos altogether.

Super Bowl Parties

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The Super Bowl is often seen as the ultimate American sports event, and those from other countries might believe every person hosts or attends a huge party with endless snacks and drinks. In reality, while it’s true that many people enjoy watching the game with friends, not everyone is a football fanatic. Some Americans just watch for the commercials or the halftime show, and others don’t watch at all.

Fourth of July Celebrations

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It’s easy to assume that every American goes all out with fireworks, parades, and barbecues on the Fourth of July. Many do celebrate Independence Day with gusto, but others might have quieter family gatherings or simply enjoy the day off.

Tipping Culture

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U.S. tipping culture can be quite confusing for non-Americans, leading some to over-tip in an effort to fit in, and with tipping being customary in many service industries, knowing the appropriate amount is key. Most tip between 15-20% at restaurants, but it’s not necessary to tip excessively to show appreciation.

College Sports Fandom

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College sports, particularly football and basketball, are incredibly popular in the United States; those outside of the country might envision every college town as a hub of fervent sports fans wearing face paint and chanting fight songs, but while school spirit is strong, not every student or local is a die-hard fan.

Drive-Through Everything

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The convenience of drive-through services is a notable aspect of life in the United States, which includes fast food and banking. Foreigners might be amazed by the sheer number of drive-through options and assume that locals rarely leave their cars; however, most people still enjoy dining in or running errands on foot.

Obsession with Ice

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Americans love their drinks cold, often filling glasses to the brim with ice; this results in those from other countries sometimes thinking that every beverage must be served with an excessive amount of ice. While many do prefer iced drinks, it’s not a strict rule.

Fast Food Culture

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Fast food is undeniably a significant part of the U.S. culture, but non-Americans might believe that locals eat fast food for every meal. While chains like McDonald’s and Burger King are popular, many Americans are equally interested in healthier options and home-cooked meals.

BBQ Masters

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Often seen as a quintessential tradition, barbeque comes with images of smoky grills and slow-cooked meats, and non-Americans likely think everyone is a barbecue expert. In reality, while many enjoy barbecuing, the skill level varies, and not everyone has a backyard grill.

Huge Portion Sizes

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Portion sizes in the United States are famously large, which can shock tourists from other countries when served food in restaurants. But not every single meal is a super-sized affair. Many restaurants offer smaller, healthier options, and portion sizes can vary.

Flag Display

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The American flag is a powerful symbol, and non-Americans can be taken aback by how frequently it is displayed. Homes and businesses commonly display the flag; however, not everyone living in the U.S. is overly patriotic. For some, displaying the flag is a simple gesture of respect.

Road Trips

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The iconic United States road trip conjures images of open highways and scenic routes but many people believe that everyone who lives there embarks on epic cross-country journeys. The fact is, many Americans also enjoy flying or staying local.

Friendly Small Talk

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Americans are known for their friendliness and penchant for small talk. Non-Americans might find this level of casual conversation overwhelming, assuming it’s a deep connection. What it comes down to is that small talk is a social nicety and doesn’t always indicate a desire for a close friendship.

Obsession with Coffee

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Coffee culture in the U.S. is strong, with a café on nearly every corner, and anyone from another country may expect every local to be a coffee connoisseur. While many do enjoy their daily caffeine fix, not everyone is obsessed with specialty coffee drinks. Preferences range from simple home-brewed coffee to elaborate espressos.

Shopping Malls

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The American shopping mall has become a cultural icon, leading foreigners to imagine every weekend spent at sprawling shopping centers. Malls are popular, but online shopping and smaller local stores also play a significant role in consumer habits—malls are just one of many shopping options, after all.

School Spirit

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High schools and colleges often emphasize school spirit, with pep rallies, mascots, and themed clothing, and tourists usually picture every student as a spirited participant. Many do get involved, it’s true, but not everyone is equally enthusiastic. Some students participate actively, while others are less engaged in school traditions.

Enthusiasm for DIY Projects

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DIY culture is strong in America; shows and stores are dedicated to home improvement and crafts. It’s easy to assume that everyone in the country is constantly working on a project. Yet, while DIY is popular, it’s a hobby for some rather than a universal practice.

Christmas Decorations

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And finally, contrary to popular non-American belief, people within the United States might often prefer simple Christmas decorations to a Winter Wonderland. The extent to which homes are decorated varies widely, although, some do still embrace the full festive spirit.

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