There are many great things about boomers that go unappreciated. However, one thing that Gen Z will never be on board with is their old-fashioned phrases that clash with modern values and beliefs. This list reveals 18 common boomer sayings that Gen Z will never understand or respect.
“Don’t Believe Everything You Read on the Internet”
A lot of boomers seem to be very distrustful and skeptical when it comes to the online world, causing them to insist on fact-checking any claims found there. But Gen Z is likely to see this phrase as patronizing and unnecessary, as there are many reliable online sources and a lot of younger people are equally skeptical of all forms of media.
“When I Was Your Age…”
This is a classic phrase older generations use when addressing younger generations. Unfortunately, it’s often used in a way that minimizes the struggles of Gen Z by stating that they have it easier or don’t work as hard. While it’s true that times are different and easier in some ways, younger individuals also have to deal with new and different challenges that can be just as difficult.
“Millennials Are Lazy”
Unfortunately, some boomers stereotype millennials and Gen Z as being lazy and complacent compared to themselves. But zoomers are often more likely to empathize with the distinct struggles millennials face, causing them to see this phrase as inaccurate, hurtful, and unfair. Furthermore, as pointed out by Greater Good, a lot of millennials are overworked and burned out rather than lazy.
“That’s How We’ve Always Done It”
Sometimes, tried-and-true methods are the best. But that’s not always the case, so it’s wrong to justify doing something a particular way just because it’s an established norm. Gen Z is a big fan of finding new and innovative solutions that better fit modern needs and values.
“Money Doesn’t Grow on Trees”
Boomers are generally good at understanding the value of money and managing it efficiently. However, that doesn’t mean they should assume that younger generations aren’t just as financially savvy. Many members of Gen Z are well aware of important financial realities such as the rising cost of living, housing, and education.
“Children Should Be Seen and Not Heard”
The outdated sentiment that children should be “seen and not heard” is unfortunately still perpetuated by some older generations. As noted by Psychology Today, teaching children that they deserve to be respected and involved in conversations is very important for their confidence, well-being, and critical thinking skills.
“Back in My Day”
A lot of boomers use this phrase in a way that romanticizes the past and puts down modern society, despite the fact that there are positives and negatives about both time periods. This can make Gen Z feel alienated, misunderstood, and looked down on.
“You’re Too Young to Understand”
Saying “you’re too young to understand” is another patronizing way that some boomers use to dismiss Gen Z’s perspectives or experiences. It’s important to remember that people should be listened to and respected regardless of their age or generation.
“Hard Work Always Pays Off”
Boomers are known for having a great work ethic, and that value is reflected in this phrase. However, Gen Z is beginning to shift away from prioritizing work and productivity in favor of mental health and a healthier work-life balance. This is probably a good thing, as the Mayo Clinic states that working too hard has been linked to a greater risk of burnout and other health issues.
“Wait Your Turn”
Sometimes, older generations will use this phrase when telling younger people that they need to wait before taking over more positions of leadership or making big decisions about the world’s future. But Gen Z isn’t so fond of this idea, often preferring to speak their mind and take action as soon as possible.
“Don’t Talk Back”
Some boomers, especially those in positions of authority, are known for insisting that younger people accept what they’re saying without talking back. However, Gen Z sees this as unfair and unhealthy, as it stands in the way of open and constructive communication and can prevent us from reaching a common understanding.
“It’s Just a Phase”
Gen Z are big fans of exploring their identities and finding new ways of expressing themselves. Therefore, they don’t appreciate it when boomers dismiss these experiences by telling them that it’s “just a phase” or that they’ll “grow out of it.” This can make them feel invalidated, misunderstood, and looked down upon.
“You Should Be Grateful”
We all know that gratitude is important, but that doesn’t mean people should be shamed into expressing it in restrictive and inauthentic ways. Gen Zers will often see this phrase as invalidating and dismissive, especially when it’s used after they’ve expressed valid concerns or feelings.
“Respect Your Elders”
Everyone is worthy of respect and acknowledgement, so younger individuals don’t usually appreciate being told to respect people purely based on their age. They also often believe that respect should be mutual and earned through words and actions rather than based on one’s class, age, or social status.
“The World Doesn’t Revolve Around You”
Just because a zoomer believes in the importance of individuality and their ability to make an impact doesn’t mean they think the world revolves around them. As such, they don’t appreciate it when boomers dismiss them and their perspective by saying this.
“Life Isn’t Fair”
While it’s true in many ways that life isn’t fair, this isn’t a compassionate response to someone sharing their feelings or concerns. Everybody has to deal with their own unique set of struggles and hardships, and they deserve to be heard and acknowledged. This phrase can also be used to dismiss important concerns about the state of the world.
“Dress for Success”
Wearing professional and appropriate workplace attire is still considered important to one’s reputation and success. However, Gen Z is beginning to tire of the sentiment that your career success should be dependent on something so superficial. This is why many workplaces are beginning to make use of more casual dress codes that allow for more freedom, individuality, and flexibility.
“Act Like a Lady”
As noted by Birmingham City University, gender stereotypes can negatively impact one’s mental health and well-being. Many members of Gen Z are all too aware of this, which is why they almost never take it well when people are told to “act like a lady” or “man up.”
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