When we’re out and about in public places, it’s essential to remember that our actions can affect those around us. Sometimes, we might not even realize that what we consider normal behavior could be annoying. These are the 20 things you should always make sure you never do in public.
Littering
The Guardian reveals that the amount of litter “is increasing exponentially on roadsides, in rivers, in public spaces and in the countryside.” Public spaces are for everyone to enjoy, and keeping them clean is a shared responsibility, which means littering not only makes a place look dirty but also harms the environment. Always dispose of your trash properly, and if you can’t find a garbage can, hold onto your trash.
Loud Conversations
Talking loudly in public can be disruptive and bothersome to others around you. Whether you’re on your phone or chatting with a friend, keep your volume at a reasonable level; remember that everyone doesn’t need or want to hear your conversation.
Playing Music Without Headphones
Blasting music from your phone or a speaker in public spaces is a big no-no, as not everyone shares your taste in music, and some people may be looking for a quiet moment. Always use headphones if you want to listen to music or watch videos in public.
Cutting in Line
Patience is a virtue, especially when waiting in line. Cutting in line is rude and unfair to those who have been waiting their turn, whether you’re at a grocery store, a ticket booth, or waiting for a bus—so always respect the queue. If you’re in a rush, ask politely if you can go ahead.
Smoking in Non-Smoking Areas
Smoking in designated non-smoking areas is inconsiderate and can be harmful to others; not to mention that many people are sensitive to smoke, and it can trigger health issues like asthma or allergies. Always look for smoking zones and stick to them.
Using Speakerphone
If you’re using your phone’s speakerphone in public, it’s disruptive and annoying to those around you; sometimes, it’s bad enough simply to have a loud phone call, but using your speakerphone is the next step in rudeness. Not only is it loud, but it also invades the privacy of your conversation.
Taking Up Too Much Space
Be mindful of the space you occupy in public places; at a park, or in a café, avoid spreading out your belongings and taking up more room than necessary. Make a habit of sharing tables, keep your bags close to you, and be considerate of others who also need space. These courtesies help everyone enjoy the area as they should.
Blocking Pathways
You should never be standing or sitting in the middle of walkways, entrances, or exits if it’s an obstruction to the flow of people and causes an inconvenience. If you’re stopping, always double check you’re not in anyone’s way, and be aware of your surroundings at all times.
Engaging in Public Displays of Affection
While a quick kiss or hug is generally acceptable, overly intimate displays of affection can make others uncomfortable. Remember that public places are shared spaces, and not everyone wants to witness your romantic moments. Save the more private displays of affection for when you’re at home.
Talking During Movies or Performances
You also shouldn’t be chatting during a movie or performance, because it’s distracting to others who are trying to enjoy the show. Even whispering can be bothersome in a quiet theater. If you need to say something, keep it brief and low—better yet, wait until intermission or after the show to discuss your thoughts.
Not Controlling Your Pets
Pets can be wonderful companions, but they need to be controlled in public spaces; always keep your dog on a leash and make sure it is well-behaved around other people and animals. Clean up after your pet and be considerate of those who might not be comfortable around animals, because not everyone loves them.
Taking Photos Without Permission
Snapping photos in public can be a fun way to capture memories, but always think about the privacy of others. Don’t take pictures of people without their permission, especially children. In certain places, like gyms or swimming pools, photography might be prohibited altogether, so make sure you check the rules.
Eating Messy Foods
Eating in public is perfectly fine, of course, but try to avoid sloppy foods that can create a mess or strong odors. Foods like tacos, ribs, or certain street foods can be challenging to eat neatly and might not be the best choice for public dining, so decide whether it’s worth the risk.
Playing Pranks or Causing Disturbances
While pranks might seem fun, they can easily go wrong and cause distress or even harm to others; public places are not the best venue for such activities. The impact of your actions on those around you could be negative. Keeping public spaces calm means everyone can enjoy their time without worrying about pranks.
Making a Scene
Losing your temper or causing a scene in public is embarrassing for everyone involved, including those who have to witness it. If you’re upset, try to find a private place to cool down or discuss the issue calmly; handling conflicts in a mature way helps maintain a peaceful atmosphere for everyone.
Begging or Soliciting
If you ask or even beg for money—or try to sell something—in public, it will likely make people uncomfortable. While it’s understandable that some might need financial help, there are appropriate places and methods for seeking assistance without turning to begging on the streets.
Using Offensive Language
Swearing or using offensive language in public is disrespectful, and especially bad if there are children around. Even if you don’t think someone can hear you, in a busy place, it’s likely they can. So if you feel like you’ll say something offensive, it’s better to say nothing at all.
Ignoring Personal Hygiene
Maintaining good personal hygiene is crucial, especially in public places, as bad odors or visible uncleanliness can be very off-putting to others. Regular bathing, wearing clean clothes, and using deodorant are simple ways to ensure you’re not making those around you uncomfortable. Make extra effort for a hot day, too.
Disrespecting Public Property
Vandalism or mistreating public property is unacceptable and ruins the experience for everyone; this includes things like graffiti or damaging park equipment. Respecting public property helps maintain these spaces for all to enjoy. Treat public areas with the same respect you would your own home.
Ignoring Local Customs or Rules
Our final thing to avoid is ignoring any customs or rules when visiting new places. This could include dress codes, behavior norms, or specific regulations about conduct in certain areas. Being careful about this helps you to blend in more easily, and respect the community.
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