17 Traits That Separate Good People from Bad People

Written By Lisa Marley

Good people can do bad things, and people who we might view as ‘bad’, like criminals, for instance, have some good traits–like being an animal lover, for example. However, these 17 traits may differentiate good from bad people.

Positive Influence

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Engaging in volunteer work or community events signifies a person’s drive to better their community and act as role models. On the other hand, not participating might show that someone is only focused on themselves.

Adaptability

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While it can be challenging, change is something that we must all come to terms with. People who are open to change and welcome it show that they are positive and open because they see the potential for personal development that comes from adapting.

Conscious efforts to help the environment

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According to UNESCO, “Currently, there are about 50-75 trillion pieces of plastic and microplastics in the ocean.”  Therefore, it’s encouraging to see people making an effort to change their harmful ways. Conscientiousness and compassion are demonstrated by a person’s readiness to make everyday sacrifices to protect the environment, such as joining beach cleanups and litter picks.

Whether or not they are open-minded

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A strong interest in learning indicates an open mind. Wanting new experiences shows a wish to grow and expand one’s view of the world. On the other hand, being stuck in one’s ways and refusing new situations shows a rigidity that others may find unattractive.

How they act when they make a mistake

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A resilient and upbeat person will view failure as a chance to improve, learn, and evolve. Growing from mistakes and misfortunes demonstrates true inner strength and integrity. Courage and drive are measured by the capacity to learn from mistakes, get back up, and try again.

Helping in the community

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Volunteering or taking part in community events shows a person’s commitment to bettering their environment. It proves they want to improve society and feel responsible. Not getting involved may suggest they are focused on themselves.

Sincerity

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Being honest means acknowledging faults and showing true regret for actions. It involves taking full responsibility without shifting blame to others. In contrast, apologizing yet blaming someone else—saying, “I’m sorry, but they made me do it”—is not sincere.

How they take and give constructive criticism

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A mature and open person who is receptive to new ideas will be able to take criticism well and grow from it, and can also provide feedback constructively, aiming to help rather than hurt.  A negative reaction to criticism is motivated more by ego than by a desire to advance, and these people may also give criticism harshly.

Respect for Boundaries

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Everybody creates boundaries; according to UBC these are the mental, emotional, or physical restrictions imposed in a relationship to set expectations for both parties. It is important to observe these limits. People who respect our boundaries do so because they care about our comfort. However, those who push boundaries may be self-centered and selfish.

Integrity

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Many good people practice honesty and maintain high moral principles in all aspects of their lives. Consistency in honesty is important. Being constantly honest and dependable in words and actions builds up other people’s trust and reliability in you. People without integrity can’t be trusted or depended upon.

Accountability

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We all make mistakes but it’s so important if we want to be seen in a good light that we acknowledge our mistakes and take responsibility for them. Not everyone is willing to do this, but when someone does, it demonstrates that they want to improve themselves, are willing to address their shortcomings, and desire to make amends.

Respectful of everyone

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When a person does their best to include everyone, it shows that they strongly believe in equality. As Britannica states, everyone has equal legal rights, and it’s great when this is recognized by people who are respectful of everyone’s cultures and viewpoints. genuinely listening to others, regardless of their status or background, is a key trait of good people.

Generosity

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Good people frequently give freely of their time, expertise, and energy and are prepared to lend a hand to others without asking for anything in return. This demonstrates a person’s commitment to making the world a better place. Whether or not a person shares their resources is a good indication of their character.

Reliability

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We all have someone in our lives who can’t be depended upon. They make plans or agree to help with something, but at the last minute, they cancel or just don’t show up. Good people can be counted on to follow through on commitments, and their reliability makes them a dependable support system.

Patience

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Patience is necessary to maintain composure under pressure. Good people show patience in frustrating situations or when dealing with difficult people, as they are able to see the bigger picture. You may learn a lot about someone by observing them in a stressful situation and noting whether they calmly try to help or jump in and make things worse.

Humility

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When someone has an honest view of their capabilities and limitations, it shows good character. Good people are willing to learn from others and understand that they do not have all the answers. On the other hand, some people are unwilling to listen to anyone else, as they believe that they already know everything.

Empathy

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Many decent people can empathize with others, recognize what they are feeling, and be compassionate and sympathetic when called upon. Their empathy leads them to express themselves with kindness and consideration for others. Some people have little empathy. Psych Central notes that “Empathy exists on a spectrum, and in most cases, it isn’t entirely absent — it’s just diminished.”

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