We all want to be liked and make a good impression, but sometimes, we might be annoying other people without even realizing it. There are many everyday things that could be irritating the people around you. Here’s a look at 18 surprising ways you might be annoying people.
Talking Over Others
When someone else is speaking, and you jump in, talking over them with your own story or opinion, it can feel rude and very dismissive. HackSpirit says that being a chatterbox can come across as self-centered and inconsiderate, which can make people feel undervalued and like they aren’t important to you.
Not Being Punctual
When you’re always late, it can be very frustrating for others as it seems like you don’t value their time. Being punctual shows respect and consideration for the people waiting for you. Try to leave a little earlier than you think you need to; it can make a big difference.
Forgetting People’s Names
Not remembering someone’s name after they’ve told you a few times can make it seem like you don’t care enough to remember. It only seems like a small thing, but it can hurt someone’s feelings. Try repeating the person’s name during your conversation to help you cement it in your brain.
Invading Personal Space
Getting too close to someone when you’re talking or hanging out can make people uncomfortable. Everyone has their own sense of personal space. Notice how close you are, and if the other person seems uncomfortable or keeps moving away or backing up, just step back a little.
Being Negative All the Time
If you’re always complaining or seeing the downside of everything, it can be so draining for others. People like to be around others who make them feel good, so try to find a balance and share good things as well.
Interrupting Frequently
When you interrupt someone, it sends a message that what you have to say is more important than what they’re saying, and they can wait. Look for a natural pause or lull in the conversation before speaking. It shows you respect their thoughts and value the conversation.
Humble Bragging
Talking about your achievements in a way that is meant to seem modest but actually comes across as bragging can totally rub people up the wrong way. It’s okay to share your stories like this; just be straightforward about it and limit it so it does not dominate the conversation.
Over-Explaining Things
Explaining things in too much detail, especially when it’s not needed, can make people feel like you think they can’t understand simple things. Try to gauge what the other person already knows and keep explanations simple and brief.
Not Listening
Psychology Today says that people who are in love with the sound of their own voices are really annoying. When someone is talking to you, you’re not listening, and they ask you a question, it makes you look bad when you can’t answer; people don’t appreciate that lack of respect.
Making Everything About You
Turning every conversation back to yourself can make you come across as self-centered. Conversations should always be a case of give and take. Showing interest in what others are saying is polite and creates bonds.
Forgetting to Say “Thank You”
Something as simple as forgetting to say “thank you” can make you seem rude and make people decide they don’t like you. Always remember to acknowledge when someone does something nice for you; it’s polite and shows you notice and care.
Making Noise While Eating
Eating sounds—like chewing loudly or slurping—can be really annoying to some people. Try to eat quietly, with your mouth closed when you’re around others, as this shows respect for them. SWNSDigital lists chewing with your mouth open as one of the 40 most annoying habits, according to research.
Overusing Sarcasm
Sarcasm can be funny in small doses, but when it’s overused, it can make it hard for others to know when you’re serious or just joking—again. So, just use it sparingly and make sure to assess the room first to make sure it’s appropriate for the situation.
Constantly Checking Your Phone
It’s pretty normal to check your phone now and then, but doing it all the time when you’re with someone can be annoying. BestLife warns that this is a surefire way to annoy someone. It makes those people feel like you’re not interested in them; your phone is more important.
Asking Too Personal Questions
Asking questions that are too personal can make people feel super uncomfortable. It’s better to try and stick to more general topics until you know someone better. Even then, make sure you are being perceptive and stop if you notice they aren’t comfortable with the direction the conversation is heading.
Not Offering to Help
If you’re around someone who’s working on something, offer to help if appropriate. It shows you care and can make you seem more likable and kind. If you just stick to your own tasks and sit down and relax while everyone else is still hard at work, you appear lazy.
Giving Unsolicited Advice
Giving advice when no one asks for it can be annoying. It’s often better to listen and only give advice when asked. Sometimes, all people want is a listening ear and someone to vent to; they aren’t looking for advice.
Being Overly Competitive
Being competitive about everything, even in situations that are supposed to be fun, can be tiring for others. It’s okay to not always try to win and just enjoy whatever game you are playing and the company of your friends.
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